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Reconciling Differences With Your Spouse
By Selvyn Evans
Whenever an issue developed with my spouse I discovered a very effective way to deal with it without repercussions. My approach is: if my spouse is very angry about the issue--I state my position calmly, without countering or criticizing her. I listen without interruption-which sometimes give the impression that she is always correct. When her anger has disappeared, I would approach her in this manner: I would Find something she had said during the discussion and express honest appreciation to her for bringing out that thought. I must find something that is honest, not fabricated, and has value. Once I do this, and apologize for causing her to be upset or annoyed, I would calmly restate my position concerning the issue that was discussed. My experience is that she would always be attentive to my arguments, most often agreeing with me, even apologizing for getting angry. Even if she does not agree with my arguments, her expression and demeanor is usually calm, and she is always very pleasant during this second discussion.
Selvyn Evans is an Accounting, Financial and Human Resource professional who has worked in the above occupations for over 20 years. He is also an ezine author and an internet marketer.
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Contributor's Note
With reference to my intel, I am convinced that one can build relationship when there is mutual respect. I am married for over 30 years, has supervised co-workers for about 20 years, and find that this principle is good for relationship building.
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